Today, one week before Mother's Day, is International Bereaved Mother's Day. This day's purpose is to acknowledge all the forgotten mothers; those of us who hold our children in our heart instead of our arms, and those yearn to have a child, but for reasons beyond their control have not yet experienced that joy.
Don't forget these mothers next week. Mother's Day is a difficult day for many women; let them know they matter. If you know a woman who has lost a child as any age, or one who struggles with infertility reach out to her. It can be as simple as a text, and email, or a phone call. If their child had a name, use it. Don't be afraid to talk about a lost child because it is often just what the mother needs. I can't speak for everyone, but even though I miss Leo terribly, I find great joy in his memory and I am truly touched when someone acknowledges him in some way. Many of us fear that our children will be forgotten.
I don't ask for myself. Because of our beautiful little Isabella I know that I will always be recognized on Mother's Day, and I have some special people in my life who will always remember that I'm still Leo's mom too. My heart goes out to all the women who struggle on Mother's Day. Please remember that they are mothers too.
"Joy and life abound for millions of Mothers on Mother’s Day. It’s also a day of appreciation and respect. I can think of no Mothers who deserve it more than those who had to give a child back."
-Erma Bobeck
If you'd like to learn more about International Bereaved Mother's Day, parental bereavement, or are a bereaved parent yourself looking for support, consider visiting the links below.
Carly Marie Project Heal
STILL Project
Still Standing Magazine
Faces of Loss, Faces of Hope
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